My
grandmother "Gran", Edith Elizabeth Worsfold, was born on 30th March 1884 at Mayes in
the parish of Warnham in Sussex as the daughter of James Worsfold
(1852-1926) and his wife Mary Baker (1851-1929). They had married on
24th August 1874 in the church of St Nicholas in town of Guildford,
Surrey. James was a domestic servant all of his life, progressing
from footboy in 1871 to groom at his marriage and culminating in
being a coachman by 1881. His career resulted in him moving about in
the south of England wherever he could find employment. After
working at Winchester, Guildford and Tunbridge Wells, by 1880 he was
at Elmswell in Suffolk. Moving on to Warnham with his wife and three
sons, his fourth and fifth children, both daughters, were born there
in 1882 and 1884. Gran was baptised in the parish church on 27th
April 1884.


When
Gran was only two, her brother Horace Reginald died at the age of
just 8 as the result of a tragic, and what must have been a very
traumatic, scrumping expedition to gather apples. It took him two
days to die from choking on a core! Fortunately, Edith would have
been too young to remember it. He is buried in Warnham churchyard and
his broken gravestone is still there to commemorate his very short
life. Edith's son, my father Reg Swinfield can still recall taking
two buses each way every year, and being entertained with the
purchase of new crayons for the long journey from Camberley in Surrey
to Warnham, to visit his uncle's grave.
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Warnham National School admission register 1887/8
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Gran
and her four siblings all attended Warnham National School, which is
today a private house. She was enrolled on 9th April 1888 and she
left the school and village on 26th April 1889 when her family moved
to Frimley in Surrey. By 1891, her father had found a new position as
a domestic coachman and they lived at Barossa Lodge, York Town, part
of Camberley, where her youngest brother was born in 1889.
In
1901, her father James Worsfold, now a fly driver with a livery
stable, his wife Mary and only their youngest son George were living
at The Staff Hotel, York Town. Three of the older four surviving children had been found positions in service in large houses in
London. Ernest was a married man of 25, who worked as a coachman
groom and lived at 2 Gordon Street, St John's Westminster, and Minnie
was the 19 year-old nursemaid to the children of William E.M.
Tomlinson, M.P., J.P. and barrister, at 3 Richmond Terrace, St
Margaret's Westminster.

Amazingly,
Edith was also in the Westminster area of London at the time of that
census. Aged only 17, she was second housemaid to Henry R. Madocks,
retired judge of the Bengal Civil Service, in a grand house at 32
Eaton Place, St Georges Hanover Square. Looking at the house today,
one wonders if her bedroom was behind one of those windows in the
attic. I can picture her day of lighting fires very early in the
morning, carrying water around the house, followed by many hours of
cleaning and drudgery. She must have had days off when she could meet
or visit with her siblings in the same part of town or perhaps catch
the train back home to Camberley.
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1901 census of 32 Eaton Place, Westminster
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By
1911, Harry, Edith and George were back at home with their parents at
29 London Road, Camberley. James Worsfold was a jobbing gardener
whilst Mary ran a boarding house of eight rooms. Her sister Minnie
also left service in Westminster by 1907 when she married George
Collins, a chauffeur, at St Michael's church. Her father James was
one of the witnesses. By 1911, they had settled at Portsmouth,
Hampshire where she remained the rest of her life, dying in 1970.

Edith
already knew her future husband by Christmas 1906 as Arthur Swinfield
was a witness at the wedding of her brother Harry Worsfold to Louisa
Boyce at nearby Bagshot church in Surrey. They did not marry for
another seven years until their wedding was solemnised at St
Michael's, York Town, on 4th August 1913. She recorded that they
became "betrothed" on 20th July 1912. He was then a waiter
of Camberley. Gran's father and two of her siblings, Minnie and
Harry, were witnesses. It is known that in late 1901, Arthur had
joined the Leicestershire Regiment and my father believes that he was
in India at some point during his service. Certainly, by 1911, he had
left the regiment and was working as a footman in the household of
Charles Matthew Griffith, a retired Major General, who was born at
Poona, Bombay. He was then an Army reservist.Arthur
Swinfield worked as a butler at the Royal Military College, located
in Camberley, from 1912 to 1946 whilst he and Edith Elizabeth lived
at 9 St Mary's Road, which was her parents home. He re-enlisted for
the First World War serving with the Lincolnshire Regiment where he
saw action at the Battle of Neuve Chapelle from 10th to 13th March
1915 where there were 7,000 British and 4,200 Indian casualties.
Arthur was listed as one of the casualties in a list of 21st March.
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Camberley News 17 December 1926
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In
January 1925, at the age of 40, Gran gave birth to her only child at
Bagshot Nursing Home. Reginald Ernest Swinfield was to become my
father.
Her
father, James Worsfold, then aged 74, fell in the bathroom of 9 St
Mary's Road on the evening of 28th November 1926 whilst his wife Mary
was trying to get him ready for bed. James was practically a cripple,
according to the evidence given to the inquest held in the house,
suffering from rheumatoid arthritis and chronic bronchitis. He struck
his head on the bath causing a wound and concussion. Sadly, he
lingered for a further seven days before he succumbed and died on 5th
December. He was buried with great ceremony at St Michael's, York
Town, where he had been a member of the choir for more than 21 years.
Mary
Worsfold survived for a further two years before she too died at home
at 9 St Mary's Road on 24th December 1929 from stomach cancer. One
can only imagine how painful it must have been for Edith to care for
both her father and mother in the last days of their lives. Both are
buried in a grave very close near to St Michael's church.
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Edith & Arthur Swinfield with other Worsfolds
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By 1939, Arthur and Edith were living at 9 St Mary's Road, Camberley, Surrey.
Arthur was working as a butler at the Royal Military College. The redacted member of the family would be young Reg Swinfield, then aged 14.
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Edith Swinfield (front row right) & Arthur Swinfield (4th from left at back) about 1950 at "Sunnymeade", Frimley Green, with members of the Bird family |
After
her husband Arthur died at home in 1956, Gran continued to lived
there for many years. I remember visiting her weekly from my infant's
school in York Town. We usually had "yellow fish" (smoked
haddock) for lunch. She and I attended Camberley Congregational
Church, just round the corner from her home, most Sunday mornings.
She smoked Park Drive cigarettes and always had a bottle of sherry
for the entertainment of her visitors. Gran spent Christmases and
special occasions in her later life with her daughter-in-law's family
at "Sunnymeade", in nearby Frimley Green. Edith had a
lovely sense of humour and loved to be teased by my mother's brother
Fred Bird.
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Arthur, Evelyn & Edith Swinfield with young Geoff about 1955 at 33 Park Road, Camberley
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Reg & Evelyn Swinfield (back row) Edith & Arthur Swinfield (front row) & Geoff Swinfield in 1952 at 9 St Mary's Road, Camberley
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Evelyn, Gran & Reg Swinfield with Fred Bird at "Sunnymeade" in 1974
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Gran's 90th birthday at Ballard Court, Camberley
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For
the final few years of her very long life, she moved into sheltered
accommodation at Flat B1, Ballard Court, in Camberley. The Mayor
visited to mark her 90th Birthday in 1974 and she died there on 24th
August 1976. She and Arthur are remembered on a simple stone in St
Michael's churchyard, York Town.